'What Kind Of Man Are You Looking For?

I got this article from my friend and it really made sense, its kinda questions Men ask that Ladies already have an answer to.

'What

kind of man are you looking for?I sat quietly for a

moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do you

really want to know?' Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes. I began

to expound, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a

position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't

do for myself? I pay my own bills. I take care of my

household without the help of any man... or woman for that

matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to

the table?' The man looked at me.

 Clearly he thought that

I was referring to money. I quickly corrected his

thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need

something more. I need a man who is striving for

excellence in every aspect of life. He sat back in his chair,

folded his arms, & asked me to explain. I said, 'I need

someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I

need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a

simple-minded man. I need someone who is striving for

excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally

yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for

disaster. I need a man who is striving for excellence

financially because I don't need a financial burden.

 I need

someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go

through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me

grounded. I need someone who has integrity in dealing with

relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a

strong man. I need a man who is family-oriented. One who

can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted

to him by God. I need someone whom I can respect. In order

to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be

submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I

have no problem being submissive...he just has to be

worthy. And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will

find me. He will recognize himself in me. He may not be

able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn

to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't

help a man if he can't help himself. When I finished my

spill, I looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on

his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot. I replied, "I'm

worth a lot".